Thread:RainbowBite1734/@comment-37583625-20191101210006/@comment-39789594-20191113215900

Poulerapace: I honestly really didn't want to enter this discussion, but I feel I have to now. You yourself are giving people insults. If what SylvianArtist said was something wrong to say, then, rightly, when you give your "honest opinion" about things, you should not say it too - as you said, they don't know you IRL, but you don't know them IRL either. If you are being just, what they are saying is also "being a normal person". If you don't have a temper IRL, then there's no reason for you to show one here. And the point is to be a better person.

I don't write this out of resentment or lack of objectiveness - I write this out of fact and justice, and I hope how I wrote came across that way in a tactful manner.

I understand that what they said could make you mad - many of us have anger problems. But - as with all of us - that does not give you leeway or a right to speak out of that anger or out of blunt honesty. We must all try and be truly honest but be tactful in that. You don't have to sugar sweet - speak honestly, just don't hurt people unecessarily. If everyone went around telling everyone that, for instance, their clothes were atrocious colours of green, or a person walked up to someone and told them they hated their personality, we would live in a world filled with depression and bitterness in every country. If you do not want others to say anything that can be perceived as mean, then you should try to not do so to them, either. Though I completely understand that it can be hard to control your anger - truly, I do. 😊 Do onto others as you would have them do onto you.

Again, I stress that my intention is not to anger you. I just want you to reflect on what I've said. That might be hard, but please, if you can, try to. I wish you well!